I am having a dilemma with the Ford family list. We have quite a few families (3 or4 from the cousins) that include step children and step grandchildren, some still young and living at home, some grown with children of their own. These kids although loved like the children born or adopted into our family, are not direct decendents and I think that is the list I am compiling is it not? I asked one of our cousins who is a step parent and she says no, in her opinion they are not direct decendants, nor were they legally adopted, therefore should not be on the list. This does not mean in any way that they are not part of our family. What are your thoughts. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.