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Remembering Sean

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The remaining Barrys. This picture was taken at Sean's funeral. Sean's absence is definitely felt.

The last time I saw Sean, was about a year ago, the end of March '06. My husband, Brian and I showed up unannounced at his place and he graciously entertained us. If he had other plans, he never mentioned them.

My brother, Brian has a pub in Camrose, AB. Sean apparently would stop in daily and drink coffee, wanting to stay in touch. Brian had a new year's eve party a couple of month previous, so I asked Sean if he'd gone. He said no, he'd quit drinking and realized that a new years eve party would probably not be conducive to achieving his goals. He'd also recently quit smoking. I remember thinking that was a lot to give up all at once, but of course didn't want to say anything to discourage him.

Sean also had a dream to buy himself all new camping gear and go on a camping trip. This he did at the end of the summer. After achieving his goals, his heart gave out at the campsite. He also had emphysema. I'm not sure if he had won the battle against smoking, but he was victorious over his struggle with alcohol. He is a winner in my books. A truly gentle soul who has left a gaping hole in our family.

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David B said…
Hi Vera (and family),

I was so shocked to hear about Sean's passing. I found myself wishing I got to know him better. I'm so sorry for your loss.

I've always assummed that I'd have time to catch-up with all of you reading this blog. I can't believe how quickly the years have flown by. I'm glad to see that people are connecting again because we never know if we'll get that chance in the future.
12 February 2007 at 06:30
Kevin Ford said…
You can't visit the Barry's and not have a good time.While I lived in Edmonton I tried to visit Camrose as often as possible.I have some wonderful memories of parties , weddings or just being over for dinner.Sean was a big part of those good times and will be sincerly missed.Hope to see you all soon.
12 February 2007 at 12:17
colleen vennard said…
There is a particular meaning behind why this picture was taken on this tee-box. I would pick Sean up everyday and take him to work with me (we have a drop-in centre at my office). On our way to work and home we would always drive past this particular hole on the golf course. Sean would always comment on how beautiful he thought it looked and the way they cut the grass in a perfect pattern. That is why the lunch took place at the old clubhouse and why the picture was taken on this tee-box.
13 February 2007 at 15:30
Vera Wood said…
You did a great job in organizing Sean's funeral and taking care of his affairs, Colleen. Thanks again
20 February 2007 at 12:53
colleen vennard said…
Thanks Vera,
Colleen
22 March 2007 at 21:26
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